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If this gay guide also covers a position, the mapping is denoted by an arrow (→).

Embracing Positions

• Tila-Tandulaka (a.k.a.

  But in an "equal congress" they should lie down in the natural position. This is where you clean out the inside of your ass with water using a special tool (a douche).
  
  You don’t have to douche. But you can also use lube applicators to put lube inside you and save time later. A stone top is someone who exclusively enjoys "give" during queer sex.

  Read a book, scroll TikTok, or find your high school enemy on LinkedIn. This is because these muscles are used to relaxing to let things out (so you've got to trick them). Some [men] of the harem, when they are amorous, do the acts of the mouth on the [lingams] of one another...The way of doing this (i.e., of kissing the [lingam]) should be known from kissing the mouth.

  The top can also enjoy the intense pleasure of thrusting deeply into their partner. It's also suitable for those new to anal intercourse, as it allows the top person to go slowly and control the depth and speed of penetration.

  For further satisfaction during missionary, use enough lubes, and also, you can also include neck kissing and nipple play.

  Water-based lube also works with condoms and all toys but it can dry out, which means you need to re-apply more often. It can feel great, but can also be intimidating – and it takes some practice to get comfortable. Similar to how they do it in heterosexual relationships, this position is great for intimacy. Without it, you can miss the warning signs and end up hurting yourself.

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  What if it’s not working?

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  Sometimes bottoming just doesn’t work.

  Tops usually take an active role during sex by penetrating, either by penis or strap, during anal sex, giving oral sex, fingering, and any other activities during their sexual act.

  Being a top doesn't always refer to the mechanics of how you do sex because queer sex can take many forms. When [he] places [his] thighs with [his] legs doubled on them upon [his] sides, and thus engages in congress, it is called the position of Indrani, and this is learnt only by practice.

  In the same way this can be done by the [bottom] of the King's harem when they accidentally get hold of a [top].

  The people in the Southern countries have also a congress in the anus, that is called the "lower congress."

  Thus ends the various kinds of congress.

  

  No matter how you identify, we’re here to help you on your bottoming journey.

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  Preparing to bottom

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  Successful bottoming doesn’t start in the bedroom. Think of it like any other muscle that needs a warm-up – just like you’d warm up at the gym before working out.
  
  Using anal toys before sex can make bottoming more comfortable.

  Talk to your companion and let him know what you like.